alright.. been busy with some stuffs these few days.. still am busy but halfway there.. got abit of time so now imma post somethin i've been pondering lately

see one of my student came up and ask, "abg jamyl, are you intending to get married soon?"
my answer was simple.. unless i get my dream car (subaru wrx), i will not get married.. see alot of pple dont know is if u think getting married is expensive, to stay in a marriage is a hell lot more work.. in terms of commitment and more importantly n yes, i say more importantly is MONETORY ISSUES!

love is all u need is BULLSHIT! epecially in s'pore.. see love don last long but money can buy love.. money can buy happiness.. yes guys, don trust the movies.. its all bullshit!.. pigs' ass i tell u..love don put food on the table, love don put ur kids thru school, love dont give u a house and car..

i'll tell u guys why in my next post due to lack of time.. but i shall first talk abt marriage and how expensive it is.. see i was askin some of my friends whom just got married and they tell u, it burnt almost half of their life-savings... how much in total? ... well im not exaggerating but its almost near $60,000 minimum.. do most of u have that kind of money now?!

some will complain that they don spend that much but i tell u, its a day for ur girlfriend more then urself.. all u need to do is jus turn up for the wedding and give ur cheque book to ur girlfriend.. and all guys will only look forward to the night of the wedding then the wedding itself..

let me break it down in detail for u..

see gettin married in a void deck is so 1965.. all parents of the bride and of course the bride wants to get married in the hotel coz they will only lose out to their other friends... yes u might think that ur GF is not selfish.. they say they don need it.. let me tell u something.. dats a LIE!!!
of course they want their special day to be the most fancy onces on earth.. will u be able to give that to her?

so hotel booking itself cost a boom.. not those cheap hotels ah.. im talkin abt real hotels! fullerton and stuffs...
so lets talk abt table... how much is dat? see believe this or not, on average.. jus 1 table and a decent full course meal cost $1000.. yes ! u saw it.. .$1000... and how many tables are u booking? see on ur wedding day, do u realise that more than half of the people who turn up are people u don recognise? see there are ur family, cousins relative, ur mum's relative and frens, ur dad's relative and frens, ur siblings frens, ur mum in law's relative and frens, ur dad in law relatives and frens, ur gf frens and ur gf siblings frens.. in short.. ur need at least 50 tables my frens.. isnt dat crazy?! but its true...people u don noe will come to YOUR wedding.. don get me started on the hongboas given... how much will 1 table of hongboa will u get? not even 10% the cost of 1 table i tell u.. so don ever depend on the hongboa u'll receive to pay for ur wedding.. it'll never work.. marriage cost a bomb..

then of course u have the downry... minimum for now i heard so far is $8000... what if the girl is a graduate from the University? or with masters or honors or watever?... will u think her parents will only accept $8000 after they have spent more then that for jus her education?! then there is of course.. the rent of costume.. u think ur gf would only wanna use 1 set of costume for her wedding day? bullshit!! at least 4 i tell u, and how much is jus for 1 set?depend on the brand of course... wat if ur gf is into fashion n she wants all the expensive designers!? u're dead nigga!

okok mayb im exaggerating abit coz millions of people did get married and they didnt spent dat much but fellas ask ur wife if u are already married, ask her if she could change her wedding day, what would she wanna improve on?.. i tell u, u'll regret askin that question coz she'll make u feel like a useless bum!

so will i get married? yes but i'll make sure i'll get married when i have the money to give her the best wedding possible.. jus for that 1 day coz im sure, like all gentleman will say.. its worth it for her...

and about the after wedding day? .. i'll tell u in the next post...

till then... *flap flap flap*

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